Tonight I am asking for prayers for this dear friend and her family. Her daughter, Kris, has terminal cancer. Please pray for the husband, children and siblings she is leaving behind. This family holds a special place in my heart even though we have never met in real life. I know for certain that God brought us together. I also know that we will meet. In the meantime, please pray without ceasing!
I am reposting something I wrote in August of 2008. I know too well what cancer does to families, and I wanted to share it again. Evy, Karyn, Gina (and all of the rest of your family)-I love you and pray for peace.
From 8/2/2008:
My cousin is putting together a book for publication, and asked me to write a couple of pieces for it. I believe it will be called, Voices of Ordinary People. I have been procrastinating on the project partly because I don't feel confident in my writing (it's why I beg for comment love!), and partly because I knew I wanted to write something about the deaths of my parents in 2004 and 2006. I knew it was going to be painful. The anniversary of Mom's death is coming up on August 11. The tears flowed, and I wrote. I wanted to share this piece, so here it is:
Your father has cancer. I heard this news two weeks before my wedding, and I felt like my world was coming to an end. My Dad was the strongest person I knew. How could he be sick? Would he be able to walk me down the aisle? I had such an immature understanding of this disease at the time. That time was 12 years ago. Since then, I understand more than I ever want to about that disease-CANCER.
Twelve years ago, we thought my Dad was one of the lucky ones. They caught it early. He only needed surgery. For the next six years, he continued to be one of the lucky ones. Six years-we thought he was safe. He made it past five-he was out of the danger zone, right? Nope. After six years, we heard it again.
Your father has cancer. How can this be? Then, two years we heard it again, but it was slightly different. Your mother has cancer. WHAT? How the hell did this happen? How did I end up losing not one, but two parents to that disease?
CANCER-I HATE that word. I hate what it means. Watching your parents fight to survive. Hoping and praying that they will live to see your children born. Hoping and praying that they will be here when your oldest starts school, and then crying when they’re not. I hate crying every time my kids hit a major milestone because my Mom and Dad aren’t here for it. I hate hearing that they’re here in spirit. You know something, that’s not good enough. I want them here-now.
My heart aches with the fact that I lost my Mom at 34 and my Dad at 35. I am too young to be without them. I know there are many people who have gone through this, who have lost their parents or (God forbid) a child even younger than I was, and I grieve for those people as well. This club is one I did not sign up for, and one I don’t want to belong to.
So, CANCER, do you know what I think of you? I think you suck! I hate what you have done to so many families, including my own.
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3 comments:
Therese, thank you so much for the prayers. Our deep abiding Faith in the one true God and his Son Jesus is what keeps us going. It is His plan, even if it is not ours. He is in control and some day my family will be complete in Heaven once again. Kris promised me about one year ago that she would tell our son Jeffery how much we loved and wanted him. She will soon be cradling her baby brother and holding her dear Grandma's hand. To God is the Glory!!
I can't imagine the pain of losing a child. Prayers for Kris and her family.
And for you Therese, I know this cross of cancer is harder for you than the average person. :-(
Such a hard and sad thing. So sorry for your pain Therese.
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